If you are thinking about whether fostering a child is for you, then there are a few questions you should ask yourself. Needless to say, it is a big decision and it is important to know if you have the required qualities to succeed.
The below list is taken from Fostering People Ireland, who are a non-statutory agency primariliy concerned with providing foster care in Dublin for children and young people.
About you
- I am over 25 years old
- I enjoy living or working with children and young people
- I am very honest with myself and others
- I am able to adapt my current lifestyle and routines to accommodate a child or young person’s needs
- I understand that a child will show their distress through their behaviour
- I am resilient and will see things through, even when the going gets tough
- I can put a child or young person’s needs before my own
- I think my expectations are realistic
- I like working as part of a team
- I’ve had a few knocks in life but have survived!
- I am in good physical and emotional health
- I have an ability to stand back and reflect
- I have a good sense of humour
- I don’t have any major unresolved issues in my life
- The thought of temper tantrums, swearing, mood swings, loud music, defiance, the joys of adolescence and a lot more doesn’t put me off!
Your Circumstances
- I am able to commit to fostering on a full-time basis (See the Fostering and work section below for further information)
- I have a spare room which can be made pleasant for a child or young person
- My home is clean and comfortable
- I have access to transport
- I have a good network of people around me to provide encouragement and support
- If I have a partner or other people in my household, they are on board
Fostering can be demanding, and it is important to have a good support network of family and friends. Some agencies, such as Fostering People, also provide support, including a dedicated Social Worker.